Sitting on the sofa listening to one of the kids read. Sun coming through the window. Four year-old takes a snapshot with the iPhone, as he often does. But the photos are usually of the carpet, stuffed animals, siblings, or art work. If I'm in the photo, it's a less-than-flattering view of my backside because it's funny to take butt-shots, or because I just got in the way. This time, he got me in a rare quiet moment. Not yelling, or commanding, or directing. Just listening. I'd like to listen more, it makes for a nicer picture.